ci(fix): Workflow actions updates and fix arm64 wheels not included in release (#1392)

* Update test.yaml

Bump  actions/checkout@v3 to v4
Bump action/setup-python@v4 to v5

* Update test-pypi.yaml

Bum actions/setup-python@v4 to v5

* Update build-and-release.yaml

Bump softprops/action-gh-release@v1 to v2
Bump actions/checkout@v3 to v4
Bump actions/setup-python@v3 to v5

* Update publish.yaml

Bump actions/checkout@v3 to v4
Bump actions/sertup-python@v4 to v5

* Update publish-to-test.yaml

Bump actions/checkout@v3 to v4
Bump actions/setup-python @v4 to v5

* Update test-pypi.yaml

Add Python 3.12

* Update build-and-release.yaml

* Update build-docker.yaml

Bump docker/setup-qemu-action@v2 to v3
Bump docker/setup-buildx-action@v2 to v3

* Update build-and-release.yaml

* Update build-and-release.yaml