Refactored codebase to use node-addon-api (#1498)

* refactored codebase to use node-addon-api and publish with prebuilt binaries

* upgraded to sqlite 3.53.3

* fixed typo

* fixed test for windows

* mitigated performace regression from NAPI refactor

* mitigated performace regression from NAPI refactor

* mitigated performace regression from NAPI refactor

* mitigated performace regression from NAPI refactor

* fixed performance regression to surpass node:sqlite

* improved array optimization for large arrays

* further improved performance

* removed dead code