make.sh: Define a new build tag libdm_no_deferred_remove

libdm started offering deferred remove functionality from version
1.02.89. As docker still builds against older libdm, define a tag
libdm_no_deferred_remove to determine whether we are compiling
against new libdm or older one and enable/disable deferred remove
functionality accordingly.

Signed-off-by: Vincent Batts <vbatts@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Vivek Goyal <vgoyal@redhat.com>