[DOM] disable legacy mode behind flag (#28468)

Adds a flag to disable legacy mode. Currently this flag is used to cause
legacy mode apis like render and hydrate to throw. This change also
removes render, hydrate, unmountComponentAtNode, and
unstable_renderSubtreeIntoContainer from the experiemntal entrypoint.
Right now for Meta builds this flag is off (legacy mode is still
supported). In OSS builds this flag matches __NEXT_MAJOR__ which means
it currently is on in experiemental. This means that after merging
legacy mode is effectively removed from experimental builds. While this
is a breaking change, experimental builds are not stable and users can
pin to older versions or update their use of react-dom to no longer use
legacy mode APIs.