bpo-32030: Fix usage of memory allocators (#4953)

* _Py_InitializeCore() doesn't call _PyMem_SetupAllocators() anymore
  if the PYTHONMALLOC environment variable is not set.
* pymain_cmdline() now sets the allocator to the default, instead of
  setting the allocator in subfunctions.
* Py_SetStandardStreamEncoding() now calls
  _PyMem_SetDefaultAllocator() to get a known allocator, to be able
  to release the memory with the same allocator.