gh-117657: Quiet TSAN warning about a data race between `start_the_world()` and `tstate_try_attach()` (#117828)

TSAN erroneously reports a data race between the `_Py_atomic_compare_exchange_int`
on `tstate->state` in `tstate_try_attach()` and the non-atomic load of
`tstate->state` in `start_the_world`. The `_Py_atomic_compare_exchange_int` fails,
but TSAN erroneously treats it as a store.