bpo-43916: Apply Py_TPFLAGS_DISALLOW_INSTANTIATION to selected types (GH-25748)

Apply Py_TPFLAGS_DISALLOW_INSTANTIATION to the following types:

* _dbm.dbm
* _gdbm.gdbm
* _multibytecodec.MultibyteCodec
* _sre..SRE_Scanner
* _thread._localdummy
* _thread.lock
* _winapi.Overlapped
* array.arrayiterator
* functools.KeyWrapper
* functools._lru_list_elem
* pyexpat.xmlparser
* re.Match
* re.Pattern
* unicodedata.UCD
* zlib.Compress
* zlib.Decompress