bpo-45522: Allow to disable freelists on build time (GH-29056)

Freelists for object structs can now be disabled. A new ``configure``
option ``--without-freelists`` can be used to disable all freelists
except empty tuple singleton. Internal Py*_MAXFREELIST macros can now
be defined as 0 without causing compiler warnings and segfaults.

Signed-off-by: Christian Heimes <christian@python.org>