gh-99289: Add COMPILEALL_OPTS to Makefile (#99291)

Add COMPILEALL_OPTS variable in Makefile to override compileall
options (default: -j0) in "make install". Also merge the compileall
commands into a single command building PYC files for the all
optimization levels (0, 1, 2) at once.

Co-authored-by: Gregory P. Smith <greg@krypto.org>