std.Build: simplify module dependency handling

At the expense of a slight special case in the build runner, we can make
the handling of dependencies between modules a little shorter and much
easier to follow.

When module and step graphs are being constructed during the "configure"
phase, we do not set up step dependencies triggered by modules. Instead,
after the configure phase, the build runner traverses the whole
step/module graph, starting from the root top-level steps, and
configures all step dependencies implied by modules. The "make" phase
then proceeds as normal. Also, the old `Module.dependencyIterator` logic
is replaced by two separate iterables. `Module.getGraph` takes the root
module of a compilation, and returns all modules in its graph; while
`Step.Compile.getCompileDependencies` takes a `*Step.Compile` and
returns all `*Step.Compile` it depends on, recursively, possibly
excluding dynamic libraries. The old `Module.dependencyIterator`
combined these two functions into one unintuitive iterator; they are now
separated, which in particular helps readability at the usage sites
which only need one or the other.